Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Pick Up Artist - Emotional investment

Emotional investment. Women are reluctant to allow themselves to become emotionally vulnerable around men of dubious intent or low S and R value. A woman knows that once she gets emotional, it becomes much more difficult to extract herself from the situation.

• Physical investment. Kissing is a bigger investment than walking arm-in-arm. Sex is the biggest investment of all.
• Time. The more time you spend together, the more invested she becomes. It takes an average of four to ten hours before sex.
• Effort. Is she chasing? People don't value that which comes too easily.
The more effort she puts in, the more invested she has become.
• Money. Did you buy her a drink, or did she buy one for your
Many of the tactics in the game are not designed to attract her, but rather to use that attraction as bait in order to get her more invested in her interaction with you. (See chapter 6 for these tactics.

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